During my personal inquiry it was plain to see that all paths were leading to sexuality and the deep rooted conditioning and suffering attached to our judgements, shame and guilt around our genitals and sexual experiences. 

SO MANY OF OUR PROBLEMS STEM FROM A LACK OF EDUCATION AND UNDERSTANDING OF OUR BODIES NATURAL POWERS AND THE LACK OF UNDERSTANDING WHEN IT COMES TO OUR GENITALS AND HOW TO CULTIVATE REAL LOVE. WE WERE NOT DESIGNED TO JUST SEEK AND CRAVE SEX.

So with this in mind, the my next part of my calling has been to dive deeper into sexuality and support myself and others in the areas of sexual release and de-armouring. Dara and I have been exploring this with each other and with some of the groups as you know. And now I want to go further. Now I have created a GO FUND Me campaign to bring in some support and offer sessions in advance. So if you feel like co-creating this experience  with me.

The profession is Certified Sexological Body Worker

Sexological Bodywork™  is somatic, erotic education that assists individuals, couples and groups to deepen their experience of embodiment. Certified Sexological Bodyworkers are trained sexologists whose certification is approved by the State of California. We offer experiential learning opportunities that consciously access profound ecstatic and erotic states. Our teaching involves a variety of instructive modalities, including breathwork, touch, erotic massage, pelvic release bodywork, scar tissue remediation, and Orgasmic Yoga coaching.

Certified Sexological Bodyworkers define themselves as somatic sex educators, supporting individuals, couples and groups to learn to direct their own erotic development, learn about their bodies, sex and sexuality, or work through sexual issues or concerns. It involves a unique combination of embodiment and mindfulness that brings people into a greater felt sense of their erotic experiencing. Certified Sexological Bodyworkers are members of The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS) and agree to follow the ASIS’ protocol and code of ethics. Through this body, they are eligible for professional insurance. The issues they work with include coaching sexual boundaries and consent, healing after birth, sexual compatibility issues within relationships, early ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and evolving patterns of using fantasy or pornography for sexual arousal. All sessions are client led and in service to the client, and confidential.

Sexological Bodywork is a profession in California, founded by Joseph Kramer. Topics like Orgasmic Yoga, conscious self love, couple coaching, somatic bodywork are just some examples of this new profession. Didi Liebold & Janine Hug, are the founder of the International Institute for Sexological Bodywork (IISB) in Zürich. They teach the Training in Zürich, Switzerland and Berlin, Germany.

Ten Common Reasons People Come to Sexological Bodyworkers

– Premature Ejaculation – Erectile Dysfunction – Inability to Orgasm – Relief from Pelvic Pain – Couples Wanting to Enhance Their Sex Life – Learning to Give and Receive Pleasure – Recovering Sexual Functioning And Pleasure after Childbirth; Genital, – Pelvic or Breast Surgery; Trauma – Accepting and Loving One’s Body, Gender and Sexuality – Understanding Anal Pleasure – Referred by a Therapist, Doctor, Social Worker, Massage Therapist

One to One Sessions 

Each Session; suggested duration is 3 hours, whether group or individual.  This allows enough time for 50/50 talk and bodywork. This allows time to talk to decide how best to proceed, plus allowing time for reflection and integration. The idea is for a person to take a series of sessions every 3 to 4 weeks with homework assignments to practice and integrate into their daily life.

Many of you know how I live my life in the ‘Gift Economy’ and so this Go Fund me feels aligned to how I like to roll.

So I dont want to put a fixed price of what I may charge for these new sessions. But to give you an idea; when I offer one to one sessions; depending on the financial situation of the person; I exchange anything from £50 to £150, this is usually 60 – 120 minutes on average; but this is mostly without bodywork.

A friend who is a Sexological Bodyworker charges $300 per 3 hour session. Just to give some context.

The knowledge I shall acquire from this experience will merge beautifully into the spaces I already create for individuals and couples to strip away the fears that hold them back from living a life of truth. And then walking as an embodiment of that true essence. That invitation to explore what it means to be sovereign. To which I feel very few including myself know the extent of blissipline required to rewire our deeply conditioned selves. Its a journey less travelled but one I find full of so much magic and wonder.

I shall be creating a Vlog of the journey as I feel this may inspire others to explore this work or it may turn them off, who knows what I am going to experience.

Simplicity is Divinity x