Return to Ecstasy

Liberate your sexuality & unleash your ecstatic potential
with our unique

Primal Pleasure Process

How to transform your sex
from 'bored and stuck' to 'Oh my God'

...even if you don't have a partner.​

Our bodies are designed to feel immense pleasure and bliss. So why is it that so many of us…

Inside you, there is an ocean of bliss, pleasure, and aliveness waiting to be unleashed.

You are an ecstatic being. Your body has the capacity for mad amounts of bliss. Your heart is full of wild love.

Yet, a saddening 60% of people are unhappy and disappointed with their intimate love-life. That’s most of us wishing for more fulfillment, depth, connection, ease and ecstasy.

Unfortunately, nobody has ever taught us how to tap into our ecstatic potential. In fact, our culture has suppressed and shamed this primal energy for millennia. We have never learned to allow its wild aliveness into our bodies. And we have even convinced ourselves that living that way was normal. But it is not.

Sensuality was never meant to be a source of stress, shame or frustration. It should be an easeful expression of your being. We feel that intuitively. We know that there is more.

The price of suppressing this energy is high. Hidden in your pants is a main switch for the pure life-force that animates your whole being and fuels your emotions and passion. If you cut yourself off from that, then you are cutting yourself off from life.

How would it feel to unblock that energy once and for all?
How would your relationship to life change?

It’s time to embrace your true nature as the ecstatic being that you are.

Our unique process will help you to…


You can liberate your ecstatic potential – WITHOUT having to go through years of therapy, or without first becoming enlightened or perfect. You don’t even need a partner. It exists as innate potential, in every single body, regardless of shape, or age… 

There are proven ways to unstuck yourself and experience the bliss you were born for.

We have combined them into a systematic journey that we call the Primal Pleasure Process. Through a sequence of powerful techniques and practices, it will clear your Pleasure Pathways and rewire your whole system for bliss.


Over the years we have tried hundreds of techniques and practices, to liberate the life force, deepen self-love and return to natural bliss. We have tested these methods on ourselves and hundreds of workshop participants to sieve out what really works for everyone. 

We combined the most powerful techniques from Tantra, Taoism, Breathwork, and Bioenergetics into one unique process to fully liberate your sexual energy and reclaim your aliveness.

Through Breath, movement, sound, energy work, and self-pleasure choreographies we peel away all conditioning and free what wants to be alive in you. 

We are Dara and Simon!

We know what it means to feel stuck in sexual monotony and boredom in the bedroom. And we also know the heaven that is possible.

Trained in tantra, yoga, energy work and sexological bodywork we got to experience the transformational power of these practices first hand. For the last 7+ years, we have traveled the world to share what we know about radical intimacy and sexual liberation, with thousands of workshop participants.

Join us and many courageous pleasure activists around the world to shift the way we love ourselves. The world needs us. 


When we started, we were working mostly with groups. But, much to our own surprise, we found that the shortest and most effective way to sexual liberation is to first learn how to be truly intimate with yourself.

For a simple reason: If you can’t be intimate with yourself, how can you be with anyone else?

By tapping into your own innate bliss, you’ll become independent of another person for your wellbeing and fulfillment. This sovereignty and has helped many people to overcome their codependency, shyness, neediness and jealousy.


Liberating this energy in you activates a profound self-healing mechanism that unravels blockages from the inside out and rewires the nervous system for joy.

Healing does not need years of painful therapy or counselling, no matter what many people would have you believe. Yes, your stuff might come up in the process, but it will find you on a downhill ride. Working with sexual energy is undoubtedly the most fun and enjoyable way of self-transformation you could ever wish for!



Creating this training as an at-home solo-course removes some of the main pitfalls that keep people trapped in their limitations. For this course you…


At the same time, this is not one of these online course, where you are just left all alone with a bunch of videos.

We are there for you all the way, if you need us. Live. We’ll support you with regular Q&As, Group Sharings, Live Coachings and Practice Sessions. There is a whole community of other Orgasmonauts too. If you want to.

We know how hard it is to stay blissciplined in daily life. We know you will have questions. We know there is always a need for personal mentoring and coaching. We know you will have the need to share your profound experiences.

So this course is different. It includes:

Live Group Coaching

Dara and Simon will regularly support you with zoom session for sharings, Q&A’s and live Group Coaching & Mentoring, so you will be supported fully

Be Love Tribe Community

Want to share and meet new people? Our private Go Touch Yourself community is easily accessed via app and inside the online training platform. No external fb groups.

Guided Pleasure Journeys

Let’s get ecstatic together! Group energy is a powerful thing. Our live guided pleasure journeys are a perfect opportunity to go even deeper and feel yourself held and supported.

Here's what past participants have to say
about this life-changing process

“I can’t describe in words. It’s a door opener to a completely new world. Through the course, I am able to give love to myself that I was always demanded from someone else. It’s the way to 100% self responsibility and autonomy. A complete life changer, AND I tell everyone about it!! Thank you soooooo much ❤️🥰😘”
Everything I’m doing became orgasmic! This program has helped me to process a lot of my old self, integrate the new self, and put together the little pieces of a re-emerging being back into the world.
...I had to cry every day because I was getting best friends with all parts of my body. Realizing it was SACRED and not dirty at all. Apart from that, I realized how much WISDOM there is in my body.
It is big, it is powerful, and it is eye-opening. If you start with the practice, you won’t go back. Go touch yourself is a way to heal deeply and to learn to feel worthy and important.
Then I had to laugh really hard because it all felt so surreal. The whole world is racing to find ways to get high and I was lying there just being ecstatic with myself. 


Breathing the Orgasmic Pathway

With ancient practices you will tap into the superhuman power of breath and discover how deep it can lead you into pleasure.

  • What is pleasure and your pleasure anatomy
  • Ecstatic Warm Up Routine
  • Erotic practices expanding your capacity to breathe to ecstasy
  • The 5 Elements of Touch
  • Cellular Reprogramming & overcoming shame
  • 3 powerful energy sublimation techniques
  • Fire Breath

Increasing your capacity to MOVE erotic energy

What you don’t move, you loose. Simple and profound movement practices will take your pleasure to the next level.

  • Energy Basics
  • 5 Powerful breath & movement techniques
  • Sexual Qi Gong
  • Exploring orgasm/ejaculation vs sublimating and circulating
  • Polyvagal Theory for Sex
  • Resensitising the genitals
  • Introduction into anal play
  • Erotic practices for moving, catharsis and release

Liberating your capacity to make sound

Sound is the fabric of the universe, basis of all matter. The bold power of your most intimate sounds will surprise and liberate you.

  • The importance of sound
  • Speaking truth as a revolutionary act
  • YES to life
  • Erotic Metta Meditation
  • Sounding with Pleasure
  • Conversation with your genitals
  • Laughing yoga
  • Circular orgasmic breathing
  • The big draw

Learning how to use your sexual energy to manifest

This is where we get to play full out with life and use all the activated energy in our bodies to consciously create! We are dancing with the stars in this module. Get ready.

  • Discover and release your limiting beliefs around what you deserve and are capable of receiving
  • Manifesting orgasmically with a tailor made guided audio meditation that will unlock your ability to make love to the whole universe. 


Aurika Valan

Aurika teaches female empowerment by embracing authentic sexuality and re-sensitising our inner feminine to sparkle with pleasure.


Dharmaraj teaches Tantra and many other healing modalities. On Go Touch Yourself he shares about the female and male pleasure anatomy.

Tom Fortes Mayer

Tom is the founder of the Free Mind App, hypnotherapist and meditation expert. We collaborated with him and his team to create audio pleasure meditations that allow us to enter deep states of being.


This course is precisely what we would have wished for, when we were beginning our own journeys. Our path would have been so much faster and easier, would we have found all this knowledge and technique combined in one place. 

This is what works for us, these are the practices we use almost daily. They have changed our own lives and did the same for thousands of workshop participants. We have no doubt, that they will do the same for you.

Dara & Simon


FREE Emotional Maturity Training (Full Course Access)

As a supplement to the main training, you’ll get full access to our popular Emotional Maturity Training, where you will learn how to release trapped emotions and move  from destructively reacting to powerfully responding. EMT is a full course on its own, with several lessons and practices.


We know that anybody can use these techniques and exercises to break free and unleash their ecstatic potential. If you are serious about transforming your life and experiencing natural bliss, then sign up now. Just click on the link below, it will take you to our community site, the Be Love Tribe, where you can sign up for the course and start immediately.


We know it is sometimes hard to commit. We know there can be doubts if this is worth the investment. We figured the most transparent and ethical thing we can do is to give you a trial (100% unrestricted access to the full course) for free, so you can be absolutely sure this is for you.

Yes, the whole risk is on us. You have nothing to loose here.
Make your choice: Commit now? Or first  have a peek inside?


Lifetime Access
322 One Time
  • Go Touch Yourself Training
  • Live Q&A Coaching Calls
  • Live Practice Sessions
  • Emotional Maturity Training
  • Be Love Tribe Community


247 annually
  • Go Touch Yourself Training
  • all the above
  • 3-Day Risk-Free Trial
  • Use as long as you need
  • Be Love Tribe Community
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P.S.: Don’t wait. We so wish we had discovered all this much earlier. It would have spared us many disappointing experiences, we would not have lived life half-embodied for so many years. And we would have had so many more of these blissful hours in bed, crying-laughing with the orgasmic bliss of truly being LOVE. 


This training provides a well of information and transformational practices. It is packed with easily digestible content (mostly in video or audio format plus pdf), but what you do with it is entirely up to you and your availabilities. We like this quote of David Deida on self responsibility: 

“You are entirely responsible for cutting through your own laziness, addictions, and unclarity. There is nothing to wait for and nobody to blame. Whatever techniques are appropriate, use them.”

You will get the most out of ithis training if you commit to the practice more thoroughly for a couple of weeks to reprogram your habits. The community platform we are using as the learning environment will make it easier for you to stay engaged and give you a sense of not feeling alone on your exploration. 

You will have access to this course for the rest of your life and also to all updates we will make to it. 

If you decide to become our Patreon you will have access to it for as long as you are our Patreon, no matter the amount you are gifting us each month. 

This is absolutely normal. The path to loving ourselves deeply is paved with stars AND huge stumbling stones from time to time. Breathing through the resistance and remembering that you are doing this for the expansion of you and you only has always helped us to come back to centre. You will learn how to differentiate between mental resistance and your body talking wisdom. The depth of insight that your body holds can appear scary at times, but we can assure you: Nobody has yet died from self pleasuring in the way we suggest it here 🙂

This course is designed for anyone wanting to deepen their relationship to themselves. It’s a solo loving practice and will greatly benefit  you whether you are a in relationship or not. 

Yes, she did indeed and never stopped. Once could say she is an expert in clitoral stimulation. Thankfully her parents were welcoming this early discovery of her pleasure and she grew up not having to suppress it. Yet still society left its mark on her and that is also part of why she created this course with Simon. 

We don’t put fixed price tags on any of our offerings. We live in the gift economy which means we rarely sell our services but offer them unconditionally and without an expectation of what we will receive in return. For the registration we ask you to deposit an amount that feels right, fair and clear to you and your level of generosity. There is a suggested amount but we are not attached to it. We have seen that if people don’t invest sufficiently, they often have trouble committing to the process. This training requires you to be very blissiplined and move through your resistance, laziness and excuses. The path to self love is paved with stars and  huge stumbling stones. We will be there with you all the way. And at the end of the training you get to decide what it was worth to you. We trust in the generosity of the participants of this journey to help us create even more in-depth learning experiences such as this one. 

If for whatever reason you prefer to  support us monthly you can always become our Patreon and access the training this way. 

This is a sex positive, educational course that will help you to rewire your masturbation habits into a spiritual practice that thrives on your pleasure. Of course you will have to touch yourself including your genitals to get the most of this. The biggest shift that we want you to make is to see your whole body as a genital, your whole body as an instrument of pleasure, which with time and practice will become full body orgasmic.

If you decide it’s not for you after completing the four modules, then you can simply ask for an amount of refund that reflects your financial means. We trust in the generosity of the participants to enable us to create more in depth learning experiences such as this one. 


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