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Radical Intimacy: Dara’s vulnerable share
ATTRACTION & THE PRINCIPLE OF INCLUSION I’m receiving a message on Facebook from a man who voices very sweetly, reflected and openly that he feels attraction to me. My fingers hover over the reply field while I’m feeling into what my answer to that could be....
Sexual attraction and how to deal with it
Most of us are incredibly undereducated in the "how to deal with sexual attraction" topic, and this is for singles and people in relationship alike. A physical pull towards another person can turn our brains upside down and our guts inside out. We have trouble...
Transparency and why it is so SCARY
"How are you?" I ask and I already know what I'm going to hear. It's either one of the following: "fine, not too bad, good or ok." The most commonly asked question in our day to day lives is probably the most dishonestly answered question ever. And that, ladies and...
Real-ationships. Power of the Yoniverse
Real-ation ships are a constant transformational workshop. I adore the reflections this beautiful being offers me every day. I am extremely grateful to continue dying and falling into the abyss of love with this phenomenon. When I don’t label Dara Stara as a women, as...
If you cannot love your partner the way they are, let them go
Once you accept yourself just the way YOU are, the next step is to accept
your partner. If you decide to be with a person, don’t try to change anything about her, let her be who she is; she has a right TO BE FREE.
A communication practice that can save your relationships
If we want to connect differently in this world we are all responsible for that. Don’t wait for someone to teach you or create it for you. Most of the issues in this world are based on tragic expression of unmet needs in our communication.
The Art of Movement: 7 Simple Techniques
WHY DOES MOVEMENT FEEL SO GOOD? It’s not only because we release endorphins into our bloodstream. Our brain needs movement like our lungs need air. Neuroscientifically speaking every joint in your body is connected to an area in the brain that orchestrates the desired...
The Art of Breath: 5 Simple Techniques
Practice for 3 minutes, vigorously. This combined movement and breath practice increases flexibility in the spine in the opposite way as the twist. It stems from yoga and can be slowed down or speeded up. Align your hands underneath you shoulders and knees underneath...
ReLOVEutionaries rise above the density
Wake up and smell the coffee my fellow miracles... The time is now. Let’s Stop 🛑 our futile complaining Moaning Winging Worrying Little me victim stories I don’t have this I don’t have that It’s not fair Blah blah blahhh Little spoilt children Stubborn...
Awaken then reprogram thyself
When we awaken its a calling to unlearn everything we have been programmed to believe since birth, that software no longer serves us if we want to live in a world where all things are possible. You may have heard the term; after the ecstasy the laundry. The laundry is...
Shut up and shake
The guy in front of you cut you off in traffic? Your neighbourhood got swept away by a hurricane? Your brand new iPhone just dropped into the sea? SHUT UP AND SHAKE! Any emotion that rises inside of us wants expression. And expression means movement! That...
A love letter to money
LET'S TALK ABOUT MONEY. AND THEN MIX IT WITH LOVE. Uh, feel the discomfort? We live in a world where money has a subtle foul taste. Where we are better off not talking about it too loud, too often and certainly can not say that we dearly love it. Love and money -...
‘Wim Hof’ breathing technique for mind, body and soul
If we want to connect differently in this world we are all responsible for that. Don’t wait for someone to teach you or create it for you. Most of the issues in this world are based on tragic expression of unmet needs in our communication.
I don’t eat eggs, i wear them… In my vagina
No, I am not taking veganism to the next level… Pharma industry has been researching and looking for a pill to solve women’s pleasure problem for all of modern time. Whilst the answer itself has been secretly waiting for it’s own resurrection for thousands of years. However: it is not a pill, but comes in the beautiful shape of an egg. And it’s not for ingesting either, it’s for inserting.
Orgasmic Yoga, True Self-Love
ORGASMIC YOGA: 21-DAY EXPERIMENT AND HOW IT WAS BIRTHED The term Orgasmic Yoga made me laugh at first, because I heard the words of a Yogi friend say; western culture has used the word yoga for everything. Yoga yoga, hot yoga, fit yoga, cold yoga, warrior yoga, yin...
Women’s sexuality isn’t ‘complicated’
It's simply misunderstood... And yes, men this is for you, too. Medical ignorance around the female body is as old as the patriarchy. The full scope of the Clitoris for example has only been fully 3D mapped less than 10 years ago. It is actually not just a little...
Orgasmic Yoga & Sexological Bodywork
The path to personal freedom has gently directed me to the root of sexual suppression. And this has led me to becoming a Sexological Bodyworker. This profession is still very unfamiliar in the world. Sexological Bodywork Certified Sexological Bodyworkers define...
Simon’s Sex Vlog I
During my personal inquiry it was plain to see that all paths were leading to sexuality and the deep rooted conditioning and suffering attached to our judgements, shame and guilt around our genitals and sexual experiences. SO MANY OF OUR PROBLEMS STEM FROM A LACK OF...
Sex Magic – and why it will probably disturb your neighbours
All I remember from our last 3 hours of love making is his eyes, wide open and demanding. His sharp voice calls me back into my body. All of a sudden I see his hand flying and it slaps my face - leaving an unfamiliar tingling on my skin. I am trying to breathe deeper,...