Even if you don’t have one, read on!


1. Look at me more often.

I know I am kind of difficult to see, but you can use a mirror! I have lips and they are not too big. They are beautiful and actually a sign for your ability to experience the most delightful passion within the boundaries of your body. Enjoy me. Love me. I am your most sacred corner. And if you want to take it a little bit further: Get NAKED with a bunch of women… Dare to look at their center piece as if you’d be looking into their eyes. Get a perspective and understand the beauty of diversity. Make it safe and sacred. There is nothing wrong with you, me – and/or any other women.

2. Don’t call me “down there”

Don’t give me all these weird names, as if I am ‘you-know-who’ from Harry Potter. Call me Yoni. Because that means what I actually am: a Sacred Gateway.


3. Open yourself.

Not just to anyone. Understand that if you open your legs to someone who deeply cherishes, respects and loves you, you will open me. And that doorway leads to the bottom of your existence. Beyond the flesh, beneath your wounds, knots and scars. The one you let walk through your sacred door, has the power to penetrate your whole being. Has the power to release the biggest pleasures of all pleasures. It’s worth it. Believe me. No fear is worth holding onto to keep you from that experience. And while you are at it:

4. Open your mouth.

I have two pairs of lips, yet no vocal chords (… although I do make quite a lot of noises), you’ve got to do the sounds for me. But not only that, speak more often with me, about me. Talk about what feels like more and what feels more like a senseless rub on my pearl of sensitivity (aka: the one and only Clitoris). I am nothing to be ashamed of. I AM YONI. I am your energy vortex. Think about the power that sits inside of me to be able to create life! Unleash it.

5. Let my waters flow.

Yes. I am your well of pleasure. In the many senses of that saying. I hold waters. Clear and clean. Sacred soup. Let me release them like a waterfall, so you can release your anger, frustration, tears and broken dreams. All of it stored inside of you. Water cleanses everything, washes away and leaves you utterly blissed out on a wet towel (yeah, don’t forget that one, sleeping on wet patches can be a little annoying).


6. Take time for me.

You are searching for love, passion and desire in all the wrong places. It’s always with you, you carry me (YONI) with you wherever you are! I am your energy vortex. Nurture me with your thoughts and caresses. You don’t need anyone else! You and me, we are a pretty epic team!


7. Get layed! MUCH MORE OFTEN.

I am a muscle that needs exercise like any other. I have places that need to be touched and touched and touched and touched (… you get the deal) until you finally feel what I can offer you! You think an hour sex date once a week is long? Try again. We need more love and less stress. Make it happen.


8. Skip the nickers. Let me see the sun!

I hang out in these dark places underneath your clothes all too often, covered up in fabric. Get NAKED, ‘cause you can.
Featured visual Artist: Anna Dittmann